."Many men have females as their best friends, I think its because they find us easier to talk too and of course we do listen. Is this the case with you? and it bothers you, try taking time out to get to know her, become her friend, you might find that you like her. Also remember if she was his friend before you came along perhaps she is also feeling threatened about maybe losing her friend.Ultimately if you feel that there is something more than friendship going on then why not ask them both outright, their reactions will say much more than words. What is the worst thing that can happen?, you might end up with egg on your face, but at least this might leave you feeling more at ease with their friendship. On the plus side they might then become more aware of your feelings and include you more within their friendship.
However if this fails and your fears and feelings escalate, just be aware that all relationships involve both costs and rewards. If your rewards do not outweigh the costs of being with your man then perhaps its time for a change of man."
- Susan Watts
10 Ways To Effectively Deal With Your Boyfriend’s Other Girlfriends
10. Don’t assume the worst
Just because your boyfriend has a female best friend it doesn’t mean that something shady is going on. Don’t stress, don’t jump to conclusions, just give it time and see what happens.
9. Become allies
If you’re not comfortable doing the one-on-one thing just yet, invite her to hang out as a group. With you, your man and some of their mutual friends. This is a great opportunity to have a chance at observing the way she acts around your boyfriend.
7. Do you trust him?Take a second, step back and take a deeper look at yourself. Why is it that his female fried bother you? Unless they’re being completely inappropriate, it might just be you. Jealousy and insecurity go hand in hand. Have a talk with your man and open up.
To branch of on the immaturity – no ultimatums, please. These “it’s her or me” conversations are ridiculously immature and usually end in a fight. Be mature and have an honest conversation with your man instead.
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