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Tuesday, 14 July 2015

10 Sexual Fantasies Men Have (That They Never Tell Their Girlfriends About)

by Alexis Caputo

Since I wrote today about women’s sexual fantasies and how difficult it can be to share them with their partners, I also surveyed my male friends to find what common fantasies *they* had that they were uncertain about sharing with their girlfriends or wives. Surprisingly, they aren’t that different from women.

My girlfriend dominating me.

“In our relationship I feel like I have to initiate EVERYTHING. It’s exhausting. Sometimes there’s not even room for me to tell if she’s really enjoying herself because she always wants me to be in charge. I think she wouldn’t find this sexy, but I would love nothing more than to lay back for once and do what SHE tells me to do. I want her to be in charge and use my body however she wants to to get herself off.”

I want her to call me Daddy.

“I would NEVER, EVER tell my girlfriend this, but I really, really want her to call me Daddy during sex. I’m not a pedophile, my girlfriend is actually a few months older than me. But something about this hits deep inside, some kind of animal instinct, it turns me on like no other.

I want my girlfriend to sit on my face.

“I have shared this fantasy with a few girlfriends in the past and since I got the same (negative) response with all of them I haven’t bothered to bring it up to my current gf. I want a girl to sit on my face so I can eat her out, it’s messy, sure, but I like that. I want it to be messy and feel a little bit suffocated and out of control.”

I want to make her have sex with one of my friends

“Not only would I never ask my girlfriend to actually do this, I won’t even joke about it with friends when we’re bragging about the sex shit we’ve done. But I want my girlfriend to have sex with one of my friends while I watch. I don’t even want to participate I just want to tell her to do it and enjoy watching.”

I want her to lay on her back on the bed with her head hanging off the edge, and get oral like that.

“I’ve seen it and I’ve read it and I’ve asked just about every girl I hooked up with to try it — only one said yes and it was the best oral of my life. Now I’m married, and it’s just not the kind of thing you ask your wife to do, but I can’t stop thinking about it. I don’t want the “best” of anything I do in bed to be behind me. I really want to do this, I just don’t think she will say yes or enjoy it even if she does. It’s to the point where I’m thinking about putting an ad on Craiglist to just do it again and get it over with.”

Anal.

“The only regret I have about getting married young is that I wasn’t with more adventurous women before I settled down. Now I will never know what anal is like. I haven’t asked my wife for it but I’ve asked her for much tamer things and she’s just not interested in trying new things. I really want to see how this feels.”

Squirting.

“I want to make a girl squirt, it’s like a sense of accomplishment for me as a man. But I’ve learned that it takes female cooperation and females do not like to cooperate. Squirting for them feels amazing but they don’t like to do it because they are too shy. I don’t get it. If a girl could make me have some insane orgasm I’d be super thankful.”

Public sex.

“I want to take my girlfriend to a sex club and fuck her while a bunch of people watch. It’s a compliment, I want them to see how hot she is and be proud that I landed her. But the girl I’m with is a conservative lawyer, she’d never go for it.”

I’m secretly turned on by the thought of impregnating her.

“I suffered an injury in Iraq that left me totally healthy down there, except that I probably won’t be able to have kids. I’m extremely sensitive about it, and as a result I developed a kind of fetish about not using condoms and getting a girl pregnant. I’ve haven’t seriously dated someone since this started so it’s super frustrating to have to use condoms every single time I have sex. All I want to do is tell them about it and try it one time, I would cum so hard, but I’m pretty sure they’ll think I’m a freak.”

I want her to be more submissive.

“My girlfriend is a feminist, and I am too — I don’t believe that’s at odds with having some roleplay fun in the bedroom — but I’ll never tell her I want to roleplay domination/submission stuff because I think she’ll think I’m like, a depraved misogynist. It’s not like that, I love and respect her, it’s just really, really fucking hot to think about fucking hard her with my hand on her throat.”

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Monday, 13 July 2015

19 Women Talk About The Surprising Sexual Fantasies They Would Never, Ever Tell Their Boyfriends About

by Alexis Caputo

The unfortunate part of female sexuality in this day and age is that we’re encouraged to have healthy sex drives, but it’s still not easy to be open about it because you never know who will still shame you for it. I’ve personally experienced opening up to my boyfriend about a fantasy I had about him and another man and we later broke up because he said he could never look at me the same way again. So, I got together with a few of my girlfriends (and we consulted with a bunch of others) to bring to light common female sexual fantasies we ALL experience, even if we choose not to bring them up to our partners.

Having him finish on my face.

“I see it in videos and imagine it’d be really hot, but I’m too reserved to request it and my boyfriend isn’t the type to ask if he can do something like that.”

Rape fantasy.

“I would never tell my boyfriend this because it’s so uncomfortable, but sometimes when I’m touching myself I think about him taking me by force. Like if I said no and he kept going any way because he’s so confident that I want him and find him sexy. It would be really fun to role play, but I couldn’t handle my embarrassment if he thought I was a freak for getting off on what is for many a very tragic thing.”

Having a threesome with another woman, but having all the attention on me.

“I feel like if I told my boyfriend that we should have a threesome, he’d be so into the other woman that I’d be totally fucked (but not in a good way). I wouldn’t know how to say that I want a threesome, but I want all the attention to be focused on me. However, the idea of a man and a woman making it their chief responsibility to pleasure me, oh my god, I’m honestly getting wet just thinking about it.”

Being dominated.

“Almost all my relationships are somewhat traditional in the gender roles sense, but I’ve never expressed to a guy how much I truly want him to dominate me. Like, I want him to do whatever he wants with me. It turns me on so much when my boyfriend even hints at this — I’m like yes! Take control! I want him to be so into sex that he doesn’t think about being gentle and kind, he just gives in to his animal impulse.”

Having a threesome with another man.

“Having sex while giving a blow job ranks up there as my absolute top, top, top fantasy. But, I never say anything to a guy I’m dating because I don’t think they’d be into it or I feel dirty for even wanting it, but all my fantasies when I masturbate are of two men at a time in the kinkiest way possible. Even writing that makes me embarrassed!”

Having their boyfriend watch them with another man.

“I don’t know, maybe because I’m really into voyeurism, having my boyfriend watch me with someone else is the biggest turn on. But I for sure think my boyfriend would be really freaked out if I told him this. I think guys are just less into this kind of situation, but maybe I’m wrong? It would be awesome if I was wrong, because this is all I get off on at this point.”

Having sex alone with a woman.

“I’m in a committed relationship, but my fantasy is to explore a woman alone. I watch girl on girl porn, but it’s definitely not enough to satisfy my desire to be with a woman. I just feel like a woman would know exactly where to touch because she knows what turns her on. But, how could I ever tell my boyfriend that I want to pretty much cheat on him… and with a WOMAN?”

Being taken advantage of.

“I know it’s not PC but if a guy ever like… requested I sleep with him to get a job or like, a guy in a power position tried to take advantage of me… it’s a pretty big turn on. I like the idea of not being in control like that.”

Swing with another couple.

“Maybe this is a normal thing with some couples, but I know my husband would be so not into this. I am almost to the point that I want to do this so bad that I will risk my marriage falling apart by saying what I want. If my husband isn’t into it, I guess I’ll have to find someone else that will be into it. I know that sounds bad, but I only live once!”

Public sex.

“My husband is super conservative and proper. His industry is that way — I even got rid of my Twitter because it made him nervous. I could never tell him that what I’m dying to try is having sex somewhere semi-public. The idea of people watching us or potentially getting caught is such a turn on. I’m considering getting him to have sex with me over his lunch break and scheduling some kind of utility or repair person to come over and “totally forgetting” about it.”

Seeing their boyfriend with another man.

“All I want to see is a hot guy going down on my boyfriend. This is all I want in this life!! I’m never going to get it, because I’m way too much of a pussy to ever tell anyone except some randoms on the internet.”

Dominating a man.

“A weak guy is never sexy in my book, I hate ones that roll over when I tell them to do something. But occasionally I do this in bed, I grab a guy’s hair and pull his head down to my pussy — and he just submits to me and it’s so freaking hot. I feel like I am a sex goddess and I’m so hot that he’ll do anything I want.”

Having an affair, Diane Lane style.

“Elicit, off-limits sex with a person I’m not supposed to be with? Fucking hottest thing ever.”

Being with a much, much younger man, like almost underage and teaching him about how to please a woman.

“As I get closer to 30 I’m trying to get the last few things off my “hit list” and obviously they all have to do with things I don’t think I’ll get to do after I settle down with a guy. One of them was being with a much older man, which I did, but I also want to be with a guy who is like 19 and (probably) clueless and just very excited to be having sex. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22 so I’ve never been with someone that’s very new to it.”

Squirting.

“I was thinking the other day that I should leave open a porn video of a girl squirting so that my boyfriend would get the hint. It just feels so weird to have to tell him that I want this. Who wouldn’t want to squirt? At this point, I would send my boyfriend to squirting lessons so he can do this for me.”

Anal.

“Have you ever seen the episode of Sex and the City whereCharlotte’s boyfriend wants her to do anal? It’s honestly exactly like real life. It’s something I’m curious to try but like she says, ‘you don’t marry the butt girl.’”

Punishment sex.

“I don’t know why this is the biggest turn on for me, but I want to be in pain. Spanked till I’m so red I can’t walk. Scratching until my blood is drawn. I’ve had this fantasy since I was young and have never had it fulfilled because it freaks me the fuck out that I even like this shit.”

Older men.

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“I’m really into somewhat older men. Not like, 70s, 80s, but a rusted, weathered looking father is so attractive to me. It just makes me curious because surely they’ve had enough experience to show me things I hadn’t previously seen or felt.”

Having an anonymous encounter with someone and never knowing their name, just pure sex no strings attached for real.

“For obvious reasons, I couldn’t tell my boyfriend about this fantasy, but fuck, if we ever break up, I am doing this immediately because, since being in a long-term relationship and not having sexual freedom, this is all I think about. Just meeting some random person and fucking until we are both spent and then never even exchanging names. God, that’s so hot.”

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Tuesday, 30 June 2015

25 Beliefs Every Man Needs to Have About Women and Life

25 Beliefs Every Man Needs to Have About Women and Life by Sebastian Harris

What do you believe in? I am sure you believe in something. Every man does. The only problem is that a lot of men in today’s day and age believe in things that are completely wrong and that are in no way beneficial to their personal development.

We live in a time in which the mainstream media does everything they can to pull men and women apart. We live in a time in which women are conditioned to believe that men are nothing but disposable ATMs. We live in a time in which you are a hero when you make fun of men and a villain if you make the same joke about women.

Even though it is understandable that this development led to a community of men who decide to live their life without women, I wouldn’t say that a life without women and without any love and sex is a life worth living.

In order to live a happy and fulfilled life we men need women, whether we accept it or not. I have never met a guy who was truly fulfilled in his life, who hadn’t had at least one beautiful woman in his life. You deserve an amazing life and you deserve gorgeous women.

What’s the secret to a happy life and successful relationships with women? Instead of believing all the negative things that our society wants you to believe, it is time to believe the things that have the power to transform your life into a never-ending adventure.

1. Life is Full of Possibilities

Some women will reject you. So what? Some people will become jealous and hateful as soon as you become successful. So what? We live in a world that makes it so easy to bring other people down, but we also live in a world of endless possibilities.

Due to the fact that you are reading this article I simply assume that you have an electronic device that allows you to open websites and that you have a working internet connection. Congratulations, you are not homeless and you have even enough money to buy luxury products, such as laptops or smartphones.

You can do whatever you want with your life. A poor Filipino street child who will never be able to read this article doesn’t have the same possibilities as you have.

2. Happiness Comes From Within

Are you ready for the shocking truth? A woman can never make you happy. Having amazing women in your life can increase your happiness level, but only if you were already happy before.

Do you really think that a beautiful, emotionally healthy and self-confident woman wants to date a completely miserable guy? No, you can only attract the things or people into your life that your energy allows you to attract.

The sooner you accept that true happiness comes from within, the sooner you will be able to attract a woman who makes you even happier.

3. A Man Needs Women to Feel Like a Man

You can try to talk yourself into believing that you don’t need women in your life as much as you want, your subconscious mind will never believe you. We are biologically programmed to want sex and we only feel like real men once we had the pleasure to be inside a woman.

Stop lying to yourself and stop pretending that you don’t care when you see guys who have beautiful girlfriends. Admit that you also want to have beautiful women in your life and do everything in your power to learn how to seduce them.

4. Self-Confidence is Key

Before you go out and approach the first woman you have to work on your self-confidence. No expensive car, not fancy job title and no trophy girl can replace real self-confidence.

Developing self-confidence is absolutely essential if you want to become successful in anything in life. You need skills to become successful, but without the necessary self-confidence you will never try to become successful, even though you might have all the potential in the world.

If you come from a place of love, she will be a lot more willing to love you, than if you come from a place of anger, hate and resentment.

5. Loving Women is Important

Do you love women? The more comments I read on popular manoshpere blogs, the more I get the feeling that there are a lot of men out there who hate women. If you really hate women you will never have the seduction success you truly want.

You might be able to attract emotionally unstable girls with severe daddy issues but you won’t attract the fun and life-affirming women that are good for you. Women are very sensitive and the moment they see you they instantly feel where you come from.

6. I Have Feelings

Every man has feelings. Unfortunately, a lot of young guys are so brainwashed by this whole alpha movement that they start to believe that a strong man is a man without feelings. Just because you suppress your feelings and just because you pretend to be an emotionless rock, doesn’t mean that you are strong.

The truly strong men are the ones who accept their emotions and who are confident enough to show their vulnerable side to women. Accept that you have feelings and show them in an authentic way. This is way more attractive than walking around as the strong alpha man who doesn’t have any emotions.

7. Being Authentic is Better than Being Fake

There is a saying that women can fake orgasms but men can fake whole relationships. Even though I hate stereotypical sayings, I have to admit that this one is true. So many men try to impress women with things that they don’t have or with behavior that doesn’t represent who they really are.

You might be able to fake it for the first few dates, but if you end up in a relationship with a girl she will sooner or later find out who you really are. The moment she finds out that you pretended to be someone you are not is the moment she decides to leave you.

Be real, be authentic and you will attract the women who love you for who you are.

8. No One Cares About Me

“No one cares about me!”

How can this be a positive belief? I know that it sounds quite frustrating but accepting the fact that (nearly) nobody cares about you can be very liberating.

No one really cares if you are successful. That means you can finally stop caring what other people think and start your own business.

No one cares if you approach the women in the red dress or not. Your fears of being judged and being looked at are completely irrational. Nobody freaking cares. Walk up to her and say “hi”!

You can do whatever you want, because 99% of the people won’t even witness what you do.

9. Success Attracts Haters

Don’t quit, just because someone hates you for what you do. I write about foreign dating and seductionand if I would quit whenever someone tells me that he doesn’t like what I do, I would have given up on my dreams before I even started.

Success attracts haters.

As soon as you will have the slightest success in any area of your life, there will be people who are jealous and who will hate you for what you do. They only do this because you show them their own failure.

Letting those haters dictate your life will lead you straight into misery.

10. I Will Lose Friends

Do you know that you will lose friends?

Maybe I should formulate this question a little bit different.

Do you know that you will lose friends if you want to improve yourself?

A man like you, who wants to improve his dating life and his life in general, will lose one or two friends along the way. This is an inevitable process. Everyone has one or two people in his social circle who will try to put him down as soon as he tries to reach the top.

Get rid of those false friends and make some room for new friends.

11. I Will Get New Friends

Saying that it is lonely at the top is not really true. The only difference between successful people and unsuccessful people is that the people who reached a certain level of success got rid of the negative people.

For every false friend you lose their will be two amazing new friends who enrich your life.

12. Women are Not Stupid

Whenever I talk about dating and seduction with a group of men, there is always one guy in the group who thinks that all women are stupid and naïve girls who can be tricked into bed so easily. It is not surprising that the same guy who says things like that is the one who has no girlfriend.

Women are not stupid.

In fact, when it comes to emotional intelligence and being aware of emotional conditions, they are often better than us. Sorry guys, but that’s the truth. If you still think that women are stupid, you should probably rethink why you always end up dating the dumb girls.

13. Unhappy Women Make Me Unhappy

Stay away from emotionally unstable women. If you disregard this advice I can guarantee you that you will end up miserable. I know from my own experience how life-sucking it is to be together with a depressed and anxious woman.

I even have someone in my social circle who is together with a woman who can only survive the day with the right dose of antidepressants. Do your emotional, financial and your physical health a favor and stay away from those women.

14. I Only Take Advice from People Who Have Done What I Want to Do

When I made the decision to overcome my fears and to seduce amazing women, I was so enthusiastic about this topic, that I asked friends and family for advice. Back then I had no experience with women and I was stupid enough to believe in the advice they gave me.

Today I wouldn’t make the same mistake again. No matter what you want to accomplish, only ask people for advice who have already done what you want to do. You also wouldn’t ask a homeless person how to become a millionaire.

15. Women Love Sex

Women are innocent little angels who only use sex to end up in relationships, right? Wrong!

Women love sex. If you don’t believe me, look at a female body. Women have a clitoris and the only reason why this thing exists is because it allows them to feel sexual pleasure.

The belief that women only use sex to end up in a relationship is one of the biggest misbeliefs in the history of dating advice. Women love sex. They love it with strangers, in open relationship and sometimes even in monogamous relationship, at least when they are together with a man who knows how to satisfy them.

16. Women are Attracted to Dominant Leaders

In case you live in a Western country you have probably heard that every woman should be in a leadership position. Well, even if you are dating a woman who leads a team of ten people at work, she for sure doesn’t want to be the leader in the relationship with you.

Don’t be one of those guys who believe that just because a woman is independent and dominant at work, she also wants to be dominant in bed. The happiest relationships are the ones where the dominant male energy and the submissive female energy are in balance.

Women want dominant men who have leadership qualities. Don’t be afraid to lead her in the bedroom, just because she leads people at work.

17. Most Women are Constantly Horny and Lonely

When I started with approaching women I believed that I would offend girls by giving them direct compliments and that I would disturb them with my approach. I was so wrong.

The more women I approached, the more I realized that they nearly always smiled when I told them that they were beautiful and that a lot of the girls who were single were happy to put their number into my phone.

I once had a date with a model who told me that she hadn’t had sex in five months. Believe it or not but the most beautiful women are very lonely and extremely horny. Do them a favor and approach them.

18. I am What I Do

Who are you? To a certain extent you are what you do. If you are wasting your precious time in front of the TV eating chocolate cake, you are a lazy guy who probably won’t attract amazing women into his life.

If you, however, spend your time with traveling, working on interesting projects and doing what you really love to do, you are an attractive man who is able to effortlessly attract women.

19. Porn is Poison

Do you feel like a real man when you hold your dick in your hand while you are watching one porn movie after another? Do you feel satisfied when you ejaculate in a tissue paper while you are watching another guy having sex with a hot girl?

Porn is poison and it destroys your motivation to meet women and it can be a major reason for social anxiety. Quit watching other guys having sex with women and start overcoming your fears, so that you can have sex with real women.

20. I Date Who I Want

What if some people think that you are a sex tourist because you are dating an Asian girl? Who cares!

What if some people think that you are a weirdo because you are dating an older woman? Who cares!

Don’t let other people tell you who you should date. No matter what someone else says, it is your choice if you want to date Asian, white, or black women and it is your choice if you are looking for girls who are ten years older or ten years younger than you.

21. I Date How I Want

Unfortunately, there are still some people who will stare at you like a deer that stares into headlights, when you tell them that you don’t live in a traditional monogamous relationship.

I am in an open relationship with an amazing woman and I am still traveling the world in search of unforgettable sexual experiences. I know what it means to get judged for the relationship model that I prefer.

As long as you and the girl you are with agree upon the relationship model you want to live in, you shouldn’t worry about what other people think about you.

Monogamy, open relationships or no relationship at all…it is your choice.

22. If I Don’t Do It Now I’ll Regret it Later

One day I will get out of my toxic relationship!

One day I will travel the world and experience incredible adventures!

One day I will overcome all my fears and seduce the women I always dream of!

For most people this magical one day will never come. Don’t make the same mistake. Do what you want to do and do it now.

23. Life is too Short to Dance with Fat Chicks

Besides achieving certain things, your main goal in life is most likely happiness and fulfillment. I already said that having women in your life is essential if you want to feel as a real man, but what’s even more important is that you have the right women in your life.

Ending up in bed or in a relationship with a girl who you are neither physically nor emotionally attracted to won’t bring you any fulfillment. Always remember life is to short to dance with the fat chicks..

24. I am Responsible for my Own Life

There is only one person who is responsible for your life and this person is you. Neither your parents, nor your teachers are responsible for your life.

You are the only person who can make yourself happy and you are the only one who can make all the important choices that either lead your life in the right direction or in the wrong direction.

25. I Always Have two Choices

You always have two choices in life. No matter which situation you are in, you can either do something to improve yourself, or you can stay the way you are.

You can either decide to learn how to seduce women and eventually end up with the girl of your dreams, or you can decide to not do anything and to waste one year after another.

All you have to do to achieve everything you want is to make a simple decision.

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