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Tuesday, 14 July 2015

10 Sexual Fantasies Men Have (That They Never Tell Their Girlfriends About)

by Alexis Caputo

Since I wrote today about women’s sexual fantasies and how difficult it can be to share them with their partners, I also surveyed my male friends to find what common fantasies *they* had that they were uncertain about sharing with their girlfriends or wives. Surprisingly, they aren’t that different from women.

My girlfriend dominating me.

“In our relationship I feel like I have to initiate EVERYTHING. It’s exhausting. Sometimes there’s not even room for me to tell if she’s really enjoying herself because she always wants me to be in charge. I think she wouldn’t find this sexy, but I would love nothing more than to lay back for once and do what SHE tells me to do. I want her to be in charge and use my body however she wants to to get herself off.”

I want her to call me Daddy.

“I would NEVER, EVER tell my girlfriend this, but I really, really want her to call me Daddy during sex. I’m not a pedophile, my girlfriend is actually a few months older than me. But something about this hits deep inside, some kind of animal instinct, it turns me on like no other.

I want my girlfriend to sit on my face.

“I have shared this fantasy with a few girlfriends in the past and since I got the same (negative) response with all of them I haven’t bothered to bring it up to my current gf. I want a girl to sit on my face so I can eat her out, it’s messy, sure, but I like that. I want it to be messy and feel a little bit suffocated and out of control.”

I want to make her have sex with one of my friends

“Not only would I never ask my girlfriend to actually do this, I won’t even joke about it with friends when we’re bragging about the sex shit we’ve done. But I want my girlfriend to have sex with one of my friends while I watch. I don’t even want to participate I just want to tell her to do it and enjoy watching.”

I want her to lay on her back on the bed with her head hanging off the edge, and get oral like that.

“I’ve seen it and I’ve read it and I’ve asked just about every girl I hooked up with to try it — only one said yes and it was the best oral of my life. Now I’m married, and it’s just not the kind of thing you ask your wife to do, but I can’t stop thinking about it. I don’t want the “best” of anything I do in bed to be behind me. I really want to do this, I just don’t think she will say yes or enjoy it even if she does. It’s to the point where I’m thinking about putting an ad on Craiglist to just do it again and get it over with.”

Anal.

“The only regret I have about getting married young is that I wasn’t with more adventurous women before I settled down. Now I will never know what anal is like. I haven’t asked my wife for it but I’ve asked her for much tamer things and she’s just not interested in trying new things. I really want to see how this feels.”

Squirting.

“I want to make a girl squirt, it’s like a sense of accomplishment for me as a man. But I’ve learned that it takes female cooperation and females do not like to cooperate. Squirting for them feels amazing but they don’t like to do it because they are too shy. I don’t get it. If a girl could make me have some insane orgasm I’d be super thankful.”

Public sex.

“I want to take my girlfriend to a sex club and fuck her while a bunch of people watch. It’s a compliment, I want them to see how hot she is and be proud that I landed her. But the girl I’m with is a conservative lawyer, she’d never go for it.”

I’m secretly turned on by the thought of impregnating her.

“I suffered an injury in Iraq that left me totally healthy down there, except that I probably won’t be able to have kids. I’m extremely sensitive about it, and as a result I developed a kind of fetish about not using condoms and getting a girl pregnant. I’ve haven’t seriously dated someone since this started so it’s super frustrating to have to use condoms every single time I have sex. All I want to do is tell them about it and try it one time, I would cum so hard, but I’m pretty sure they’ll think I’m a freak.”

I want her to be more submissive.

“My girlfriend is a feminist, and I am too — I don’t believe that’s at odds with having some roleplay fun in the bedroom — but I’ll never tell her I want to roleplay domination/submission stuff because I think she’ll think I’m like, a depraved misogynist. It’s not like that, I love and respect her, it’s just really, really fucking hot to think about fucking hard her with my hand on her throat.”

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Monday, 13 July 2015

19 Women Talk About The Surprising Sexual Fantasies They Would Never, Ever Tell Their Boyfriends About

by Alexis Caputo

The unfortunate part of female sexuality in this day and age is that we’re encouraged to have healthy sex drives, but it’s still not easy to be open about it because you never know who will still shame you for it. I’ve personally experienced opening up to my boyfriend about a fantasy I had about him and another man and we later broke up because he said he could never look at me the same way again. So, I got together with a few of my girlfriends (and we consulted with a bunch of others) to bring to light common female sexual fantasies we ALL experience, even if we choose not to bring them up to our partners.

Having him finish on my face.

“I see it in videos and imagine it’d be really hot, but I’m too reserved to request it and my boyfriend isn’t the type to ask if he can do something like that.”

Rape fantasy.

“I would never tell my boyfriend this because it’s so uncomfortable, but sometimes when I’m touching myself I think about him taking me by force. Like if I said no and he kept going any way because he’s so confident that I want him and find him sexy. It would be really fun to role play, but I couldn’t handle my embarrassment if he thought I was a freak for getting off on what is for many a very tragic thing.”

Having a threesome with another woman, but having all the attention on me.

“I feel like if I told my boyfriend that we should have a threesome, he’d be so into the other woman that I’d be totally fucked (but not in a good way). I wouldn’t know how to say that I want a threesome, but I want all the attention to be focused on me. However, the idea of a man and a woman making it their chief responsibility to pleasure me, oh my god, I’m honestly getting wet just thinking about it.”

Being dominated.

“Almost all my relationships are somewhat traditional in the gender roles sense, but I’ve never expressed to a guy how much I truly want him to dominate me. Like, I want him to do whatever he wants with me. It turns me on so much when my boyfriend even hints at this — I’m like yes! Take control! I want him to be so into sex that he doesn’t think about being gentle and kind, he just gives in to his animal impulse.”

Having a threesome with another man.

“Having sex while giving a blow job ranks up there as my absolute top, top, top fantasy. But, I never say anything to a guy I’m dating because I don’t think they’d be into it or I feel dirty for even wanting it, but all my fantasies when I masturbate are of two men at a time in the kinkiest way possible. Even writing that makes me embarrassed!”

Having their boyfriend watch them with another man.

“I don’t know, maybe because I’m really into voyeurism, having my boyfriend watch me with someone else is the biggest turn on. But I for sure think my boyfriend would be really freaked out if I told him this. I think guys are just less into this kind of situation, but maybe I’m wrong? It would be awesome if I was wrong, because this is all I get off on at this point.”

Having sex alone with a woman.

“I’m in a committed relationship, but my fantasy is to explore a woman alone. I watch girl on girl porn, but it’s definitely not enough to satisfy my desire to be with a woman. I just feel like a woman would know exactly where to touch because she knows what turns her on. But, how could I ever tell my boyfriend that I want to pretty much cheat on him… and with a WOMAN?”

Being taken advantage of.

“I know it’s not PC but if a guy ever like… requested I sleep with him to get a job or like, a guy in a power position tried to take advantage of me… it’s a pretty big turn on. I like the idea of not being in control like that.”

Swing with another couple.

“Maybe this is a normal thing with some couples, but I know my husband would be so not into this. I am almost to the point that I want to do this so bad that I will risk my marriage falling apart by saying what I want. If my husband isn’t into it, I guess I’ll have to find someone else that will be into it. I know that sounds bad, but I only live once!”

Public sex.

“My husband is super conservative and proper. His industry is that way — I even got rid of my Twitter because it made him nervous. I could never tell him that what I’m dying to try is having sex somewhere semi-public. The idea of people watching us or potentially getting caught is such a turn on. I’m considering getting him to have sex with me over his lunch break and scheduling some kind of utility or repair person to come over and “totally forgetting” about it.”

Seeing their boyfriend with another man.

“All I want to see is a hot guy going down on my boyfriend. This is all I want in this life!! I’m never going to get it, because I’m way too much of a pussy to ever tell anyone except some randoms on the internet.”

Dominating a man.

“A weak guy is never sexy in my book, I hate ones that roll over when I tell them to do something. But occasionally I do this in bed, I grab a guy’s hair and pull his head down to my pussy — and he just submits to me and it’s so freaking hot. I feel like I am a sex goddess and I’m so hot that he’ll do anything I want.”

Having an affair, Diane Lane style.

“Elicit, off-limits sex with a person I’m not supposed to be with? Fucking hottest thing ever.”

Being with a much, much younger man, like almost underage and teaching him about how to please a woman.

“As I get closer to 30 I’m trying to get the last few things off my “hit list” and obviously they all have to do with things I don’t think I’ll get to do after I settle down with a guy. One of them was being with a much older man, which I did, but I also want to be with a guy who is like 19 and (probably) clueless and just very excited to be having sex. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22 so I’ve never been with someone that’s very new to it.”

Squirting.

“I was thinking the other day that I should leave open a porn video of a girl squirting so that my boyfriend would get the hint. It just feels so weird to have to tell him that I want this. Who wouldn’t want to squirt? At this point, I would send my boyfriend to squirting lessons so he can do this for me.”

Anal.

“Have you ever seen the episode of Sex and the City whereCharlotte’s boyfriend wants her to do anal? It’s honestly exactly like real life. It’s something I’m curious to try but like she says, ‘you don’t marry the butt girl.’”

Punishment sex.

“I don’t know why this is the biggest turn on for me, but I want to be in pain. Spanked till I’m so red I can’t walk. Scratching until my blood is drawn. I’ve had this fantasy since I was young and have never had it fulfilled because it freaks me the fuck out that I even like this shit.”

Older men.

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“I’m really into somewhat older men. Not like, 70s, 80s, but a rusted, weathered looking father is so attractive to me. It just makes me curious because surely they’ve had enough experience to show me things I hadn’t previously seen or felt.”

Having an anonymous encounter with someone and never knowing their name, just pure sex no strings attached for real.

“For obvious reasons, I couldn’t tell my boyfriend about this fantasy, but fuck, if we ever break up, I am doing this immediately because, since being in a long-term relationship and not having sexual freedom, this is all I think about. Just meeting some random person and fucking until we are both spent and then never even exchanging names. God, that’s so hot.”

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Sunday, 14 December 2014

27 Things Men Do in Bed that Women Hate

27 things men do in bed that women hate

Sex isn't always sexy! Here are 27 things men do during sex that ladies totally hate.

You should know by now that not everything that happens during sex is actually sexy. No?

Well then, let's enlighten you a little. Sometime ago, we talked about 25 things women do during sex that men hate.

Now it's time to turn the tables and ask the women how they feel while doing the dirty.

Metro UK went on Facebook and asked the womenfolk what dudes do in the sack that they hate, and below are their answers. [Warning: contains adult content, obviously].

'When they try to recreate sex positions that they've obviously seen on some online porn site, and you end up basically doing a headstand, looking a mess and having to listen to them say: "You're loving that aren't you babes?" Err, no.'
'When you're on top and they're just staring at you and it's like, ahhh what face do I pull? So you just close your eyes and hope for the best.'
'When they ask YOU to put the condom on. Just no.'
'When they think it's sexy to spank you so hard that you just want to turn around and punch them in the face.'
'When they just stop, and it's like, "hello? Did you hear me orgasm?" No.'
'Asking "do you like that?" How about just don't talk and see if I look like I don't want to kill myself/watch Scandal over your shoulder.'
'When you give them a blow job and they act as if you don't have a gag reflex. How about I throw up all over your penis?'
'When they ask you to strip (which is always awkward – what music do you put on?) and then your skinny jeans get stuck round your ankles.'
'When they see random things they've read online and think they're a good idea. Err no, I don't want ice rubbed all over my body.'
'When you're in the middle of foreplay and they thrust a finger up your bum with NO warning.'
'When they drag it out because they're waiting for you to orgasm first. You're going to be waiting a while for that…'
'Trying to go down on you in the morning when you're feeling really unsexy and unclean. Just gross.'
'Putting their fingers everywhere at once like they're playing some sort of instrument. Far too confusing, you just don't know what's going on down there.'
'When they think it's a good idea to stick objects in you. Just no.'
'Casually trying to have anal sex without asking and without lube. It does not just slip in there.'
'Being so aggressive with their hands during foreplay that they pretty much give you internal bleeding.'
'Nipple biting. It just f*****g hurts.'
'Pulling your hair so hard you scream and your eyes water.'
'Baggy boxers. Eww.'
'Man stubble. And not the type that's on his face.'
'When a bloke wants to do 69 but insists he's on top, so you basically suffocate under him. Vom.'
'Eating fried chicken before a blow job. Pretty much the worst taste imaginable.'
'When men rush foreplay and think you're going to orgasm from 27 seconds.'
'Wanting to ejaculate on your face, in your hair, in your eyes.'
'Being passive aggressive when they can't make you orgasm. So sexy.'
'Trying to remove underwear with their teeth. What even is that?'
'Not cleaning properly. It's not attractive to taste urine.'

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Monday, 31 March 2014

Men's Sexual Response

Even today, many females don't understand male sexuality. So this article is for women – especially women who can sometimes find it hard to understand what makes men 'tick' sexually.

But men might also find it useful to read what follows.

Male sex drive

The average male is are interested in sex than the average female.

It can be enormously difficult for women to understand just how powerful the average man's sex drive is.

Although males vary a lot on how keen on sex they are, the average man does tend to be much more 'driven' sexually than the average women is. (This applies to gay men as well as to straight guys – but in fact this article just deals with heterosexual males.)

In 2005, one of Britain's top sex experts told the media that in general, men are on a 'five day cycle' where sex is concerned (ie wanting to make love every five days) – whereas women are more likely to be on a '10 day cycle'. There may be some truth in this.

But it's also true to say that plenty of males – particularly young and virile ones – would really like to have sex every day – and maybe more often than that.

Indeed, in the era of anti-impotence drugs we have actually seen middle-aged men who have been using these medicines to have sexual encounters with three different women in a single afternoon. This is pretty crazy behaviour, but it does offer an insight into male sexuality…

Nature's programming

One of the reasons why the human race has survived for hundreds of thousands of years is the fact that nature has 'programmed' men to be mad keen on penetrating women – and getting sperm into them.

That may not sound very nice, but it's the truth. The primary sexual objective of a human male is to get his penis inside a woman – and to discharge his sperm into her.

And even though many guys succeed in being faithful to their partners, the scientific truth is that males are really 'programmed' to inseminate as many attractive females as possible.

So the fact of the matter is that the human race has survived in the main because primitive men went round fertilising a lot of women – thus ensuring the continuance of the species.

Your man today

But let's bring it up to date. What about your man today?

Well, it should be the case that recent centuries of civilisation have had an effect on him – so that he does not try to impregnate every nice-looking woman he meets.

Nonetheless, the following are fairly safe assumptions:

your man is very keen on sex
he thinks about it a lot – much more often than you do
however romantic and gentle he may be, deep down one of his major objectives in life is to get his penis inside you
and once it's in there, he has a deep, driving 'biological imperative' to reach a climax – and ejaculate into you.

Oral and rectal sex

So ingrained is this instinct to impregnate a woman that many men appear keen to accept any available female orifice – even if it's not the vagina.

That's why a very high proportion of men desire oral sex and a substantial minority (and it does still appear to be a minority) are keen on anal sex.

Conclusion

So, the average male is more interested in sex than the average female and is much more likely to:

feel very strong urges to have intercourse
take sexual risks, regardless of the consequences
be unfaithful
try 'commercial' (ie paid for) sex
feel extremely unhappy and disaffected with life if he is not having regular sex with a partner
feel desolate if a woman he loves rejects his sexual advances.

And the average man tends to be more swiftly aroused than the average woman.

Indeed, the slightest thing can set a man off – for instance:

the sight of a woman's cleavage
noticing a woman's bottom which has a shape that appeals to him
seeing a good pair of legs
getting even a whiff of perfume.

Of course, we are not suggesting that the average man acts on these arousal triggers whenever they happen.

But it can help women to understand their men if they are aware of just how driven males can be where sex is concerned.

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