The Best Positions for Women to Achieve Orgasm

If an earth shattering, bed rattling and mind blowing orgasm stays elusive to you, there is a high probability that the fault doesn’t lie with your body, but with your technique. Yes, you heard us right! The quest to that perfect orgasm doesn’t mean you have more and more sex, but it requires you to have quality sex using the right position, that will always and always guarantee an orgasm. And the fact of the matter is that some of the carnal classics are more than good enough to orgasm, if you tweak them just a little to suit your requirements.

Here are some sex secrets that will tell you which sex positions increase your chances for that perfect climax. Try these positions the next time you have sex, and we assure you that you will not be sorry!

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#1 The Doggy style

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Everyone has tried doggy style, but many of us don’t really get it right. One way to try this position is to kneel on all fours and make sure the legs are slightly parted and the elbows bent for better support. The key is to ensure that your head isn’t pressed in to the pillow; arch your head back slightly and hold your butt up for full penetration. If that doesn’t work for you, tweak the position slightly by lying on your stomach, and lift your butt slightly so that your man can penetrate from behind.

Why it works? When done correctly, this position can maximize G-spot stimulation because it gives a lot of scope for the penis to rub against the upper walls of the vagina, as well as the testicles to rub against the clitoris to create just the right amount of friction, resulting in a strong, powerful orgasm.

#2 The Rocking Horse

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While the woman on top position works for many because this gives you the chance to set the pace and thrust, sometimes you need a little modification to achieve an earth shattering orgasm. The Rocking Horse is the perfect example – the woman is sitting and not lying on top, with her legs wrapped around her man, rocking up and down to set the perfect rhythm.

Why it works? Not only do you have full control to work on your orgasm, the angle allows for a deeper penetration and the rocking movements will set the perfect pace. Additionally, the fact that your man has the ideal angle to work on your pert nipples at the same time works like a charm!

#3 The Backwards Cowgirl

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Now we have already established the fact that being on top will work in your favour to achieve that elusive orgasm, but why not spice things up a bit? Try the backward cowgirl – face away from your man as you mount him from the top and ride away to that perfect orgasm!

Why it works? The position gives you the opportunity to dictate the pace as well as the depth of thrusting. The man has access to your clitoris and can further use his fingers to stimulate it. Also, the fit is tighter and that makes the sensations you have coursing through your body a lot more intense.

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#4 The Flower Press

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If a G-spot orgasm is what you are after, the Flower Press is sure to thrill. While this is a simple position that is a tweak to the favourite Missionary Style, here you need to raise your legs upwards and angle them over your man’s shoulders, your knees nestled in the crook of his neck.

Why it works? This position deepens the penetration because of the angle your body is in, also making his pelvic arch create the perfect friction against your clitoris for extra stimulation.

Bonus tip: While our highly recommended sex positions are guaranteed to make you come, it definitely helps if you play around a little by yourself to find out which of these positions has the most desired effect on you. This ensures that when you are with your partner the next time, you know exactly what to get him to do to facilitate that orgasm.

Do you need help to achieve an orgasm? What positions have you tried that worked for you? Do you think you will try our recommended sex positions to spice up your sex life? Let us know!

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How To Dirty Talk During Sex Without Feeling Silly

Did you know that dirty talk during sex can be a huge turn on for both you and your man? The truth is that talking dirty while getting busy under the covers will turn ‘ordinary, boring sex’ into ‘hot, kinky sex’ that you will remember forever! And while you might think that it’s quite tough to pull off the dirty talking act, in reality all it needs is a little confidence, some inspiration and just a tad of imagination. Trust us, if you could just get these tricks right, the benefits of talking dirty will outweigh the drawbacks any day (or night!)

Here we reveal some sex secrets that will knock his socks off in bed!

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1. Start simple by expanding your limits

For most of us, it is very easy to ooh and aah in bed. But when it comes to putting more words than that in to expressing our sexual fantasies, most of us hit a brick wall. The key to talking dirty with confidence is to know what to say, and how to say it right. You don’t have to sound too over the top and only use filthy curse words; try all the naughty little words you can think of that are within your comfort level and spin them in to sexy sentences. Verbs like smack, bite, fondle, suck, lick, grab, pinch and squeeze can come to your aid!

2. Be in control

There is nothing sexier than a woman who knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to say it out loud. Be assertive by telling your man exactly what you want! Talking dirty in bed isn’t about emulating a porn star; rather it is all about enhancing your sexapade by letting your man know what you like, how you like it, and where you like it most; and do that with a lot of style. Remember to return the favour as well, and drive him wild by encouraging dirty talk from him! It’s all about being in control, girl!

3. Do not worry about sounding silly

One of the biggest mistakes women make when trying to dirty talk is to try hard not to sound silly. There is nothing silly about expressing your inner most sex fantasies to your man! We’ll let you in on a secret that we hope helps bring out that unbridled passion in you – When a man is turned on; a lot of things that would ordinarily sound ridiculous to him can begin to sound really, really, really hot! So don’t be afraid to try new hot dialogues; he will have no complains, we promise! If you want some help, note down a few snippets you heard in a steamy movie or read in a hot book and use them as an inspiration.

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But just like everything else, dirty talk comes with a few pitfalls as well. Here are a few things we suggest you NEVER try out in bed in the name of ‘dirty-talk’:

Compare your man to your ex; even if you want to imply he’s the best sexual partner you have ever had.
Mentioning parents when getting busy is ALWAYS a recipe for disaster.
Never let the dirty talk refer to the age difference between you two, or racial difference, or any such objectionable difference. Your dirty talk can be mildly offensive by using f-words, but never should be majorly offensive by laying down obvious personal differences.

Do you like to dirty talk in bed? What other things do you like to say or do? Have these tips helped you feel a lot more confident about trying it out next time?

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