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Soldier Will Receive America's First Penis Transplant

God bless the USA

A young soldier who sustained a bomb blast in Afghanistan will receive the first penis transplant in the United States, Today reports. 

Surgeons at Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine say the penis will come from a deceased donor and should allow the soldier to be able to have sex and develop urinary function within a few months. 

Dr. W.P. Andrew Lee, chairman of plastic and reconstructive surgery at Johns Hopkins, notes how damaging it is for young men to return from war with genital wounds, saying, "I think one would agree it is as devastating as anything that our wounded warriors suffer, for a young man to come home in his early 20s with the pelvic area completely destroyed." 

Dr. Jeffrey Kahn, a bioethicist at Johns Hopkins, said wives of veterans whose husbands had sustained genital injuries had expressed similar sentiments, saying it "eroded their husbands' sense of manhood and identity."

The transplant is still considered experimental, since there has only been one successful penis transplant reported in a medical journal (which took place in South Africa last year) and the risks include bleeding, infection, and rejection of the implant. 

Despite the risks, Lee says it's possible that transplant recipients will still be able to have biological children, since the donor's testes would not be transplanted, thereby allowing him to have his own children and not the biological children of the donor. 

The Johns Hopkins doctors say that even if the transplant fails, they can still remove it without causing any harm to the recipient, so it's definitely worth trying. 

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If Buddha Gave Dating Tips

On the spiritual path, the dating tips or “rules” are surprisingly simple.

Ever wondered what it would be like to have the ancient wisdom of the Buddha to guide you through the dating process? If the Buddha Dated: A Handbook for Finding Love on a Spiritual Path by Charlotte Kasl, PhD, has been beloved by relationship-seekers ever since it was published in 1999.

Thing is, if the Buddha did give dating tips, they might be a little confusing to the modern-day man. Consider this your Top 10 CliffsNotes, each with modern day explanations.

• “When you say goodbye to someone or decide not to see them again, remember you are a moment in their story. Make it a story that doesn’t leave a scar.” Translation: Do whatever it takes to leave on good terms.
• “Equality doesn’t need to mean that both people earn the same amount of money, have equal status, or are equally good looking. It means they value each other as equals when it comes to making plans, making love or making decisions. They have an equal voice. One does not sacrifice himself, or herself, to the other.” Translation: Equality is not based on statistics. Equality is based on shared values, shared communication and shared self-respect. 
• “In an unequal relationship, because the subordinate mate acquiesces and complies, the dominant one is never challenged to reflect on him- or herself. There is little or no growth, flexibility, or melting into the shared heart—no forming of the “us” bond that brings two people into spiritual union.” Translation: In equal relationships both people are challenged to grow and evolve together, rather than one person always pushing for the other partner’s growth.
• “Things are always changing—our thoughts, cells, hormones, hairline, consciousness, relationship, and the landscape around us. Instead of trying to freeze the present moment and hanging onto it, we need to remember that life is a process of constantly letting go.” Translation: The only constant is change. Every present moment is a chance to embrace the newness and let go of the past. 
• “To be loyal to our journey is to know the rhythm, tone and pulse of our essential inner world- the song that is ours alone. When two people bring the richness of their inner music to each other, they bring the possibility of a new composition, of counterpoint, harmony, voices weaving together creating a magical composition. If we’re disconnected from the music of our essence and attempt to find happiness through another’s song, there will be dependency and a relationship without harmony.” Translation: We must be know and accept who we are fully before we enter a relationship, lest we end up in co-dependency. When two whole people join in a supportive relationship, the results can be magical. 
• “If we have the belief ‘I’ll always be abandoned,’ we create situations where we’ll be abandoned, and forget to notice when people are loyal friends. Our task on the spiritual path is to stop repeating the same old stories and become aware of all the ways we keep proving our stories are true.” Translation: Thoughts become things. Choose to reinvent your story for better results. 
• “We can either bargain, hold back, and hang onto comfort and security, or we can take a deep breath, and say take me, and leap into the fire.” Translation: The risk is often worth it, especially in love.
• “There are so many dating books with numerous rules about the right thing to do and say when dating. On the spiritual path, the ‘rules’ are simple. Simply ask yourself, am I being guided by spirit or by my rigid ego?” Translation: Ego-driven actions love rules. Spirit needs no rules to guide us.
• “Ego says I want someone to fill me up. Spirit says I’ll have someone to help me wake up, to challenge my blind spots and be a companion and playmate on the journey. Translation: If we believe and live as already-full beings, we don’t look to others to fulfill us. 
• “Another aspect of loving kindness is to remember that it’s not being free of imperfections that’s crucial to relationships, it’s being honest about our faults and mistakes. When we accept our humanness we become able to apologize (not grovel) for having been rude, insensitive, or dishonest. Our apology to another is a form of compassion to ourselves because it signifies acceptance. This is at the heart of intimacy.” Translation: By honestly accepting our faults and mistakes and apologizing with sincerity, we practice compassion towards ourselves and others.

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The Dating Game: Tips for Single Moms Looking for Love

The Dating Game: Tips for Single Moms Looking for Love

Single moms and the dating life. "Is there such a thing?" asks Circle of Moms member Rachel D. "I would love to know, how does it work? Because it seems like there is never a spare moment," she adds, voicing the collective lament of many single moms who say that after working all day and caring for the kids alone, they find themselves in a state of exhaustion — not exactly in the mood to go out and find romance.

Let's be real, how do you put your sexy on after a day when "let's snuggle" means cuddling a toddler to nap? Or is it possible to find the energy to date when kids rule the night shift as well because there's no "B team"/partner to offer a break from parenting duties that are 24/7?

But, fret no more single moms. While dating is not easy, "it can be done," assures Stacy D. For single moms who are looking to add more love and romance into their lives, there are some successful strategies for playing the field, having fun, and making sure your child is at ease — if and when a new guy enters your life. Consider these ideas from Circle of Moms members who have put themselves out there in the hopes of finding love again.

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1. First, Decide if You Are Really Ready

"Don't rush into anything," advises Circle of Moms member Star. J., and many moms share herhesitancy about jumping back into the dating game. "My daughter will be 18 months and I'm still not ready," says Leslie N. "I have yet to meet a real man that I could date, because most I have met are not willing to take care of another man's children." And Jean C., a mom of three children (ages 11, 14, and 18), who's been divorced for two years, echos, "I wonder all the time if I am ready for dating. But I do feel that I need to try to find someone that can treat me like a lady and do things with me. It's true that after you divorce it may take you three years to get over it and start dating."

2. Venture Outside Your Comfort Zone

Part of transitioning to life as a single mom is watching the built-in social life that comes with being married — the world of coupled friends — vanish. The first step is to get back into a social network, which can be easier said than done, says Regina K. "It's important to start with social situations that might take you a little out of your comfort zone," she recommends. "Remember, just because we're single moms doesn't mean our lives have ended. In due time you'll know when it's OK." Other Circle of Moms members agree that you've got to go for what your heart desires and deserves. 

3. Better Ways to Meet Someone

Online dating is one popular resource some Circle of Moms members say leads to new love. "By going online, you can chat and go through the get-to-know-a-guy [phase] without taking time away from your kids," says Bethany H. Other Circle of Moms suggest pursuing hobbies and participating in sports or other activities you enjoy as a way to meet new people — and potential dates. "After years of partying it up at bars and clubs I've settled down and enjoy building snow forts and kite flying," says Leigh S. She adds that it is through her hobbies that she has started meeting new people.

Volunteering has been the ticket to meeting new guys for Charissa B. "Meeting guys at a bar is always a hit-or-miss kind of thing. What do you really have in common, you like to drink," she says. "I think the best thing is to pick something you love (for me it's snowboarding) and pursue it. Every winter I head up to my local ski resort and volunteer with their adaptive snowboarding program. That's where I met my current boyfriend."

4. Be the Initiator

Go ahead and make a move, say many single Circle of Moms members who back up that suggestion with the rationale that life's short. "I am dating somebody I met at the grocery store one day," says April B., who introduced herself to her boyfriend of three months. "You can tell if a guy is interested, so go ahead, make a move. The worst he can say is no."

Remember you can meet a guy anywhere, advises Natasha R. "You can meet your Mr. Right in the strangest places," agrees April B. "If you see someone you like, you just have to go for it. That's what I did and we have been going strong so far."

5. Start Small

Life is not an episode of The Bachelorette, where dating means leaving your child home for six weeks to travel to an exotic locale to find a prospective mate. It's best to venture into the dating world slowly, Circle of Moms members agree. "Plan small evenings first or lunch dates," says Melissa D. 

6.  Trust It Will Happen When the Time is Right

"It may take time, but you will meet someone, and even if you don't by trying to date, you might make some great male friends," advises Jennifer N. "All I know is that you don't know if you don't try," says Tamara B.

Are you a single mom who is dating? What's your advice?

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Dating Tips I Learned on the Dance Floor

I’ve been taking Salsa lessons for about a year now, and the thus far the experience has been as enriching and as it has been humbling.

In addition to teaching me a lot about my strengths and weaknesses, it’s inadvertently (re)opened the eyes of the 40-something singleton to some truisms (if only in my mind) about dating. Specifically…

1. Sometimes You Need to Let the Leader Lead:

If you’ve ever taken any salsa or any type of ballroom dance for that matter, you know there are leaders (males) and followers (females). For many women, especially us independent single lady types, learning to follow can be the toughest part of mastering salsa.

On the dance floor failing to let your lead take control is always a bad thing. Fortunately, things on the dating scene are a little more nuanced. Still, stepping back, especially at the beginning of a new romance, to allow your guy to set the pace of how fast or slow (FML!) your connection builds is generally a good idea for at least two reasons. 1) It gives you insight into how into you he is; and 2) sets you apart – in the most alluring of ways, trust – from the ‘Insert-any-man-here-who’ll-put-a-ring-on-it-STAT’ types, clamoring to get the attention of any and every eligible man within a hundred mile radius. That’s a win for you on both counts.

2. Finding the Right Lead Takes Time and Effort:

+Sadly, all leads are not created equal, and few of us are lucky to find an exceptional partner the first time we step onto the dance floor. Any salsa dancing woman worth her salt knows cutting a rug with a variety of leads – however good or ‘m’eh’ they might be – will not only help to make you a better follower, but also a better dancer in your own right. And it’s much the same with dating. While you wait for your prince to finally show up, spending a fair bit of time hanging out with some frogs is likely to make you a better and decidedly more discerning dater.

3. Dress for Success:

Though it may be more practical to show up in your jeans, a t-shirt and your snazzy new flats to dance the night away, donning a hot outfit and some heels will definitely get you more attention from any potential dance partners. Of course, more attention means more dances, or in the case of dating, more dates. And more dates = more chances you’ll meet your very own Mr. Right – sooner than later. BONUS!

4. Wallflowers Stay Losing:

Sitting on the sidelines has never made anyone a better dancer, or I’m guessing, gotten anyone a date. So, get in the game folks! Whether we’re talking dating or dancing, if you don’t put yourself out there – there being anyplace where your perfect match may show up (be it the dance floor, local bar or on an online dating site) – you’ll never, ever win.

5. If at First You Don’t Succeed Try and Try Again:

Great dancers are built not born. As with dating, every salsa newbie committed to achieving greatness knows the old Japanese proverb, fall seven times and stand up eight, is a rule to live by. Well, the same goes for all you single ladies out there, looking to meet a great guy. So, once you’re in the game, you need to stay in it – over the short (if there is a God) or long haul – to find the man of your dreams.

Now go out and ‘break a leg’ in the dating (and dancing) trenches, ladies!

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Made in Chelsea's Lucy Watson: Top 5 Dating Tips

Made in Chelsea’s Lucy Watson has released her Top 5 dating Tips every girl needs to know, all in good time for picking up Mr Right on Valentine’s Day!

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Lucy’s tips:

Always be true to yourself – never change for anyone

Sooner or later, the real you will come out so why bother trying to hide it? If a guy doesn’t like you for who you are then you are dating/ thinking about dating the wrong one. You should have the ease of friendship with your partner. It’s nice not to show them your Sunday morning look on your first dates, but no accents, white lies or embellishments with the truth  or you will get off on the wrong footing.

Always wear something that you are confident in

There is no point in worrying about your wardrobe when you are supposed to be listening to and enjoying the time with your date. No fiddly tops, too short skirts or massive heals. You need to be a balance of sexy and comfortable or will spend all night in a perpetual state of fidgeting.

Smile

Everyone looks better when they smile. It is inviting and shows that you are having a good time, that you are not a bag of boring and mood swings. (You may be but don’t show them that side of you yet!) Just make sure that when you do that you check your teeth straight after dinner- you don’t want the dreaded herby filling grin!

Don’t wear too much make up

This shows that you are also trying to hide yourself, just as if you were telling him a lie. Accentuate your good points, but avoid, false eyelashes, too heavy foundation and  masses of colour. If they wanted to date a china doll they would visit a toy store. Cover up your spots and highlight your eyes so you canbe confident about your eye contact!

Lucy’s secret to clear, radiant date night skin without piling on the make-up:

“Well every morning I get up and make sure I cleanse and tone my face, I then moisturise. I leave the moisturiser on my face to sink in for a while so it can benefit the skin best. If I am having a long day I will make sure to put on Witch Skin Clearing Primer to help the make-up to stay in place! I then put on make-up and then that’s about it.”

Make sure to avoid messy foods if you are eating out – especially spaghetti!

So it may have worked out on Lady And The Tramp, but that is Disney and they are dogs. Pick something that lacks sauce and expert forking action! (Save that for later…..*wink, wink*)

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5 Dating Tips For Introverts

5 Dating Tips For Introverts

A lot of dating experts give people advice on how to navigate the crazy world of dating and relationships. They tell people what to say or what not to say on a date and offer tips on how to get a person's attention and attract an emotionally mature partner. All of this is great and useful information. But the thing all of these experts have in common is that they're ALL ignorning a large segment of the dating population -- INTROVERTS!

 

An introvert is a quiet and introspective thinker that lives in the world of thoughts and ideas. These people typically avoid parties and social gatherings like the plague—and if they do go to a party, they often feel drained and low on energy very quickly. Dating is a little bit different for these people. Here are some dating tips for introverts!

 

1. Confidence: If you don’t have confidence, you don’t have anything. Whether you’re an introvert or an extrovert--confidence is key! People can tell in a matter of seconds whether you value yourself or not. You must be confident in who you are and what you stand for--even though we live in a culture that values quick decision-making and constant talking. Blah, Blah, Blah! You provide insight, wisdom and thinking--people can learn a lot from you! So be proud of the gift you were born with.

 

2. Find A VERY Extroverted Partner (I’ve seen many introverts go in this direction): Extroverts love people. They need to be around people at all times. They will become the center of your social world and help you navigate the extroverted world. In you, they feel they have a partner that they really know. You can also teach them the value of silence and reflection.

 

3. Join Clubs Or Groups That Interest You: Love Chess? Join a group. Writing classes? Go for it! Book Club? Yes! You will find many introverts like you in these settings. SciFi Clubs? Are you kidding me? Yes, go there!

 

4. Be Brave And Take Chances: As proud as you should be of being a thinking and reflective introvert, it is also important to be brave and do something out of your comfort zone ever so often. If you like someone, just ask them out. If they say “No,” keep going. Rejection is a part of life and learning to deal with that rejection is important in becoming a healthy human being.

 

5. Love Yourself: Look at everything about yourself as a positive—because it is! You can’t love others until you love yourself. Here are some positive introvert qualities:

 

-You can stop and think for long periods of time before making a decision. That’s wonderful! This thinking will help you avoid a lot of pain and mistakes in your life.

 

-You can also sit quietly for hours and hours at a time and just master new skills! That sounds great to me too!

 

-You are a wonderful listener and wise friend. Wouldn’t you like a person like this in your life? Of course!

 

Now go out there and meet people!

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Top 5 Dating Tips for Both Men and Women

After interviewing gurus that counsel both men and women on dating, we noticed something that was quite curious. Some of their dating advice was actually gender-neutral and could be applied to both sexes. As we see it, good advice is good advice.

Here are the top five dating tips for both men and women:

1. Be Open Minded: The number one rule we have heard from both sides of the fence is to go into every date with an open mind. Your ideal partner, based on your personal checklist, may be completely different from the person that you could be truly compatible with. Everyone has this warped sense of who their perfect partner should be, but when interviewing countless older couples who have been married for more than 50 years – their life partners were completely different from the person they initially imagined.
2. Don’t Research Before a First Date: In these days of Google and Facebook, it’s easy to be tempted to do a little research before you even go out on a first date. Don’t do it! You’ll get a false impression of the person, and can make strong judgments without even knowing him/her yet.
3. Don’t Bring Baggage: Avoid talking about old relationships, negative experiences, etc. Have those conversations only after several dates. There is little to gain by dwelling on the past.
4. Be Honest About Yourself: You can avoid specific topics early on, but don’t lie about things. Starting a relationship based on lies is never a good idea.
5. Leave on a High Note: Keep a first date short, and it’s always better to leave on a high note. Meeting for coffee or a meal is great, but don’t make long drawn out plans for another date – excuse yourself and say goodbye. Better to leave the person wanting more.
   

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The Case for Dating Short Guys

The Case for Dating Short Guys

Everyone likes a tall man; there’s tons of research to prove it. Of a 2009 study, the journal Evolutionary Psychology says, “Male height is associated with high mate value. In particular, tall men are perceived as more attractive, dominant and of a higher status than shorter rivals, resulting in a greater lifetime reproductive success.”

That same study found that “Tall men reported greater relationship satisfaction and lower levels of cognitive or behavioral jealousy than short men,” and that short men engage in different “mate retention behaviors” than tall men. According to Alan Au, client relations manager at the clothing boutique “Jimmy Au’s For Men 5’8″ and Under” in Beverly Hills, the “mate retention behaviors” of short men are precisely why you should date them. As part of a case for dating short guys, he says, “Considering lifelong companionship, shorter guys may be the better choice. If it holds true that shorter men don’t have as many dating opportunities, if nothing else, I think shorter men would try harder to be funny, caring, empathetic, honest, hardworking — and just be a gentleman. In that case, the rationale might be that they are more loyal.” (Read: How to Stack the Deck in Your Favour When Dating Online)

Short men may be loyal, but women who marry them may not be. According to Evolutionary Psychology, “The female preference for tall partners may present an increased risk of desertion or cuckoldry (paternity by another male) to shorter men.” But, Au notes, the historical and even evolutionary preference for taller men may be misguided. He says, “A healthy 160-pound, 5-foot-5 man is going to be a stronger protector than a healthy 160-pound, 5-foot-11 man. It’s been well documented, pound for pound, shorter men have greater endurance, stronger muscles, faster reaction times, faster body movement and are less likely to break bones.” Plus, he adds, “Shorter men live longer. Shorter men have lower incidences of cardiovascular disease when comparing taller men with the same health conditions.”

Short men may be known for their “Napoleon complex,” but as Chiara Atik wrote in a 2012 post for the HowAboutWe blog The Date Report, “A short guy willing to go out with a girl who’s taller than he is is confident and probably ok with his girlfriend upstaging him. He’s not too hung up on appearance or machismo. This is a good quality to have in a boyfriend.” She also notes, “the general consensus from women seems to be that guys who don’t necessarily feel the most attractive will often work much harder in bed, whereas the Don Drapers of the world, who are used to being wanted and pursued by women, focus more on the act of receiving pleasure than giving it.” (Actor Jon Hamm, who plays Don Draper on “Mad Men,” is 6’2″.) (Read: 7 Keys to Good Loving)

Blogger Jeanna Barrett – who is going on 50 dates to food trucks (my kind of girl) – says in this post that short guys make great dates because they “are a more comfortable hug height and fit like puzzle pieces in your arms.” I understand where she’s coming from. While I’m not sure that dating a guy who is several inches shorter than me would work for me (I’m only 5’4″), I do prefer guys who are around my height or just a little bit taller … and yes, for puzzle-piecing purposes. I joked recently that, “When it comes to relationships, the guy has to be taller. That way he’s always looking at you from the angle you use in your selfies.” But the truth is, when a guy is too much taller than me, I feel like every hug and prolonged conversation hurts my neck.

Women, would you date a man who is shorter than you? Men, do you prefer to be taller than the woman you’re dating?

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What If They Don't Live Up To The Hype?

Does this sound familiar?



There you are on a Friday night, lit only by the glow of your computer monitor, pouring through online profiles and you see him. He’s cute, his profile hits all the right notes. You write him a short but catchy email and get a response right away. The emails start a’flying.



After chatting for awhile you are both feeling good enough about the connection that you make a date to meet in person. Your hopes are high and you are even a bit giddy. This feels like it could really be something.



You get to the cafe, find a table and wait for him to arrive. Then you see him, or someone that kind of looks like him, and you get that sinking feeling in your stomach. He looks a little older, maybe a little heavier than his photo. Hope has turned to disappointment. What do you do?


I don’t approve of telling blatant lies. For instance saying you are an international model, when you are really a mini-mart cashier or that you are 28 when you are really 48. (I mean either you are or you are not…and as far as I know websites don’t ask you what age you “feel” you are). With things like your body type, weight, build, describing that can be a bit more up to individual interpretation. Curvy to one person can be Jennifer Lopez and Rebel Wilson to another. Putting yourself online, picking photos and selecting what “size” you think represents you can be a rough task and you want to put your best foot forward. So give them some slack and see how the in-person conversation goes.



They will either live up to their virtual personality or fall somewhat short (or really short) of the virtual relationship you were having. Before you make a final judgement, be open to simply hanging out with someone new. It is never a waste of time to have a good conversation, even with someone you don’t feel fireworks with.



Now, there are a whole slew of others things that can turn an initially hopeful date into a disappointment, that you can’t see but learn through conversation. It may be that their online persona is far more engaging then their, live one. Maybe their job as “investment tycoon” turns out to be a huge collection of Star Wars figurines. Or maybe they are just a rude jerk in public. Those are things you can’t see, but may find out along the way and can also dash your hopes of a love connection. That is when you have to weigh the whole package and decide from there if it still feels right.


If during your conversation you confirm for yourself that it isn’t a match, let the date come to a peaceful end. Don’t sneak out the bathroom window. Always plan to make first dates short and sweet, like grabbing a coffee or quick happy hour meeting (one drink – not a pitcher of margaritas) wedged between other plans so you have a built in exit strategy and don’t have to be rude or make something up on the fly.



Don’t dump them on the spot, you have no idea the day they came from or how they will respond. I recommend waiting to break the bad news via a call or email, unless of course they press the issue right then and there. Then be honest but compassionate and let them know you’re not feeling it.


If after having a face-to-face chat you are sure the whole package isn’t working for you, chalk it up to a new experience. One you can learn from. So when a date goes not as planned ask yourself these questions:


What was it about them that just didn’t click for you?
What had you all fired up before the date, but fell flat in person?
What have you learned from this that will help have better dates in the future?

Dates are never a waste of time. You can always learn more about what you do and don’t want. Don’t worry. I promise you that even though this date didn’t work out there are more on the horizon and the more you sort out what you want, the closer you are to finding a match that fits.

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Online Dating Tips

Many people are always looking to connect with others, but with busy schedules and loads of work, some may not have the ability to go out and meet these new people. Enter online dating. There are many online dating services that are available, some for free and others with a fee. When using these dating services, there are some things that all users should be aware of. Of course, the cost of the site is a concern. Most of the reliable and successful dating sites will have a small fee that is incurred, and users should always make sure this is an affordable price for the service that is being offered.

When dating online, people will view a profile, so this is the first place to start. Make sure the profile information is complete and up to date. Some sites will allow for users to add a picture and if doing so, ensure it is a current picture and is only of the user. Pictures should be clear and easy to distinguish. Another thing to include in the profile is interests. Since users will be trying to connect with others that have similar interests and goals, it is important o tell as much about yourself as possible.

Once a connection is made, take time to email the other person and get to know them before setting a physical meeting. Many people jump right in and want to meet right away, but by taking things slowly, you will be able to learn more about the person and make sure it is a good match. Never divulge a home address to anyone initially. When meeting for the first time, avoid using homes. Try to set a meeting in a public place where others will be present to ensure safety. Online dating can be successful if users stay smart and avoid scams and pitfalls.

Another thing to consider is the location of the person you are connected with. Even if the match seems to be perfect, make sure that person is easily accessible. Long distance relationships seldom work, so it is best to search locally and connect with others in your own area. With these tips, even new online daters will have a great chance at meeting that someone special.