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Saturday, 15 August 2015

An Orgasm At The Gym? 4 Things You Should Know About ‘Coregasms’




An Orgasm At The Gym? 4 Things You Should Know About ‘Coregasms’


Exercise-induced orgasms can occur independent of sex and arousal


According to research, few women experience orgasm solely as the result of penetrative sex. That means a good majority of women achieve their orgasms in other ways; the clitoris and its 8,000 nerve endings serves as a popular alternative. But sometimes, just sometimes, women are able to access their orgasms through more elusive means.

Sexologist Alfred Kinsey first introduced the concept of “Exercise-induced orgasms” (EIO) in the early ‘50s. Nearly 60 years later, a team of researchers at the Indiana University decided to revive the conversation.                                                                                                    

The team, led by Debby Herbenick, co-director of the Center for Sexual Health Promotion at Indiana University, located a total of 530 women to participate in a cross-sectional, anonymous, Internet-based survey. 124 participants reported having experienced an orgasm (coregasm) during activities like as biking, climbing, yoga, weight lifting and running. Out of that group, a lucky 9.6 percent said they were able to “coregasm” from a brisk walk alone. An additional 246 participants reported to have experienced sexual pleasure (though not orgasm) through exercise.

While the study didn’t determine how common it is for women to experience EIO, the authors did note that it only took five weeks to locate 370 women who had experienced sexual pleasure while exercising – over half of the women surveyed (who ranged in age from 18 to 63). The findings have been published the journal Sexual and Relationship Therapy.


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Of course, there are still plenty of things we don’t know about the under-studied phenomenon (Herbenick’s study is already three years old). Listed below is some of what we do know. 


1. Abdominal exercises are the most effective means of achieving a coregasm


Let’s start with the name. “Coregasm.” Sure, it’s a popular alternative for the more clinical-sounding “exercise-induced orgasm.” But it also speaks to the part of the body most likely to trigger an orgasm. 45% of the women in Herbenick’s study had experienced sexual pleasure while exercising their lower abdominal muscles.

In open-ended responses, many of the women specifically referenced a piece of equipment called the “Captain’s Chair.” Users place their arms over its padded rests while pressing the torso against the back of the chair. The legs are allowed to hang free. A press release put out by Indiana University explains, “The goal is to repeatedly lift the knees toward the chest or toward a 90-degree angel with the body. “

Alison Sadowy, a pelvic floor physical therapist at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota, told Fitness Magazine, "When you squeeze your abs, you're probably unknowingly also contracting your pelvic floor muscles to stabilize your core.” She added, "Orgasm is a pleasure contraction of the pelvic floor muscles, so by contracting them, they just do what they do best."

Tom Chen, creator of the Smart Kegel Exercise Aid (SKEA), insists, “Strong pelvic floor muscles can enhance arousal and improve sensation, orgasm quality, and general sexual experience.”

2. You don’t have to have sex to experience sexual pleasure


Masturbation is probably the easiest way for us to experience sexual pleasure when alone. But Herbenick’s study illustrates that unpartnered sexual pleasure comes with variety. It also suggests female sexual pleasure can occur outside of an explicitly “sexual” context.

 As Herbenick reported, “These data are interesting because they suggest that orgasm is not necessarily a sexual event, and they may also teach us more about the bodily processes underlying women's experiences of orgasm."

She added, “Many of the women in our study indicated that they weren't even thinking about sex [at the time].”

Additional data exists to support her claims. A 2000 study titled Sympathetic Nervous System Activity and Female Sexual Arousal was the first to suggest that the female orgasm can occur in the absence of arousal as a “purely physical component.” And clinical psychologist Lori Brotto told Crossfit Journal, “Exercise increases sympathetic nervous system activity and has been shown to heighten sexual arousal… For women who are easily orgasmic, [exercise] might be just enough of a boost to their sympathetic activity to lead them to experience orgasm.”

When discussing her “coregasms” with the publication, an athlete called “Sharon” explained, “You’re more in control. It feels very muscular. I can feel them coming on, and if I continue doing reps, I’ll get to the point of climax.”

3. Coregasms have been around a long time, but they’re not often discussed


Alfred Kinsey, often described as “The Father of the Sexual Revolution,” first introduced the concept of exercise-induced orgasms back in 1953. In his book Sexual Behavior in the Human Female, he reported around 5 percent of females studied had experienced an orgasm while exercising. Since then, conversations surrounding the phenomenon seemed to have dropped off. It’s probable that in the past 60 years, schools of women have experienced similar sensations. They just didn't know who to report it to. 

Dr. Justin Lehmiller writes on his blog, “Scientists have known about this for over a half-century!” He adds, “Exercise-induced orgasms are not all that rare, nor are they the brand new discovery heralded by many fitness magazines.”

4. It might be possible for men to experience coregasms as well


Personal trainers Bret Contreas and Dean Somerset (also a trained kinesiologist) decided to reexamine the coregasm phenomenon during a fitness summit in Kansas City. When discussing their conclusions with the site Refinery 29, Somerset explained, “[Coregasms don’t] happen exclusively with women… Men report a similar incidence rate, but the mechanisms may be completely different, since the anatomy is different. My theory is that it 
occurs through prostate stimulation, but it's not something we've investigated deeply as of yet.”


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Saturday, 1 August 2015

Quickies, Tantra & Kink: The Different Kinds of Sex Every Couple Needs


Quickies, Tantra & Kink: The Different Kinds of Sex Every Couple Needs


Couples often wonder what kids of sex everyone else is having, and is the sex they are having "enough"? Not only in terms of frequency, but also in terms of the kinds of sex to be having. After all, couples don't want to miss out, if there's great sex out there to be had! 

In terms of positions, there are many in the world - thousands of books beginning with the tao of sex and the Kama Sutra have been written and no doubt blogs and books about sexual positions will continue to be written. People love to explore their bodies and pathways to pleasure with one another. But sex isn't only about the position and the frequency. Generally speaking there are categories of sex, all of which keep your sex life spicy, varied and stimulating. Just as you wouldn't eat the same meal for dinner every night, or even eat only the same dessert, or listen to one song on a loop for years on end, sex needs some variety to keep it interesting - and that means changing it up more than how often you do it or who is on top.

Here sexologist Dr Gabrielle Morrissey lists the the types of sex you should have for a healthy, balanced and spicy sex life.


Quickie sex


Fast is not a bad word. It's just bad if it's the only word to describe your sex life. Sometimes, practically speaking, and for fun too, a quickie is just the thing to put some zip - or unzip - into your day! 

 


Gourmet Sex


This is when you take longer and indulge in each other. Perhaps you play out a fantasy. Perhaps you start with a bath together and make an evening of it. Or maybe erotic massage is your thing. When you have longer than 30 minutes to spare, think about having long, drawn out sex that indulges your senses and stimulates you both from head to toe and everything in between.



No-sex sex


Sex without intercourse can often remind a couple what it was like at the beginning of their dating relationship, if they ever had a time when they weren't sexually intimate. But sex without intercourse also allows a couple to feel intimate without the pressure of penetration and intercourse, particularly if that has become a pattern. By having some sexual time together that doesn't involve intercourse, you become the ultimate creative couple in bed.



Morning sex


Testosterone levels tend to be highest in the morning and men, and women too, can feel a strong desire for sex in the morning. But often it isn't practical - the household is awake, the day feels like it must race on, work deadlines await, morning breath is, well, not the sexiest ... but all that aside, sometimes, it's the best way to start a day and feel loved and connected, rejuvenated and with an extra spark to you. Be open to it!




Kinky sex


Each couple needs to define kinky for themselves and kinky can mean different things at different ages and stages of a person's and couple's life. Experimentation helps couple to build on their intimacy and grow together ... and have fun together! Sex is your intimate recreation time together so try new things and laugh, or try new things and say, "Let's do that again!"



No orgasm sex


Have sex without the pressure of having an orgasm. It's okay to say that you don't climax every time, or that sometimes you just want to be generous to your partner, or be the receiver of some generous, lavish attention. There has been a great deal of pressure to define sex as "meeting the goal of orgasm" and preferably simultaneously that it takes some of the pleasure just purely from touching skin to skin and enjoying each other's touch for touch's sake, away. Sometimes, you can have foreplay or intercourse and orgasm doesn't have to be a goal




Spiritual sex


A lot of people are curious about things like tantric sex, which is, like other forms of "sacred sex", acknowledging the spiritual component of engaging with each other in a naked, intimate vulnerable way. Understanding as a couple that you choose to be this with one another, is not just a physical experience, but a deeply gratifying emotional one, and one all couples, however they do it, with feeling, will benefit from greatly, especially while they are naked. Emphasis is on breathing together, sharing your feelings, preparing a safe and loving, stimulating space for sex together and enjoying who your lover is, and not just how they touch you.



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Tuesday, 2 June 2015

Masturbation: All the Ways Self Love Is Good for You

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Masturbation: All the Ways Self Love Is Good for You


As we get better at self-love, we get better at making love to others.

In 1995 Jocelyn Elders was fired as Surgeon General of the United States for suggesting that masturbation should (maybe) be taught in schools. That same year, sex-toy company Good Vibrations launched National Masturbation Month to help break down stigmas surrounding the practice. Twenty years later, National Masturbation Month has grown into International Masturbation Month. And while things are slowly starting to come around, there still doesn't seem to be enough love surrounding the act of self-love.
As Susan Block once told me, “You are your own longest term lover.” Now that masturbation month is drawing to a close, it’s important to be reminded of that. While partnered sex is certainly a thrilling endeavor, a little solo practice can go a long way in enhancing the experience. Listed below are 10 examples of how.

1. It helps you get acquainted with your orgasms.
If we were to compare sex to an ice cream sundae, orgasm would be the cherry on top. And while failing to reach that end certainly doesn’t discredit the experience, it can leave you craving something more. Masturbation is an easy way to get acquainted with your orgasms, and more importantly, where to locate them. Of course, some people have an easier time finding their pleasure centers than others. It’s not like guys have to go digging to find their sex organs (unless of course, they’re looking for the pleasurable prostate, but more on that another day). Women, on the other hand, do. But just as the trip to the liquor store gets shorter once you know the route, orgasms become easier to attain the more time you spend looking for them. There are certain things in life we like to leave to chance. When and how you experience orgasm doesn’t have to be one of them.

2. It helps layer the the sexual experience.
Masturbation can take different forms. Some people like using their hands. Others rely on toys. Preferences will differ, but, hey, variety is a good thing. And the more comfortable we become with solo-sexual activities, the more likely we are to bring them into a partnered environment. Masturbation is a pretty reliable way to experience orgasm, so it makes sense to introduce masturbatory activities into other areas of our sexual lives. As clinical sexologist Kat Van Kirk told You Beauty, “Sex begets sex." She added, “The more often a woman is sexually aroused – even by herself – the more likely she is to not only want more sex with a partner, but also be more orgasmic when she does.”

3. It can work as a sleep-aid.
Having an orgasm is a great way to relax. That’s what makes it such a perfect note to end the day on. But while most of us can relate to that feeling of post-pleasure laziness, not all of us have the science down to explain it. And that’s okay, that’s what the Internet is for.  Shape magazine reports that the hormone prolactin is released in the brain following climax. This not only leads to a refractory period after orgasm, but an increase in drowsiness as well. Oxytocin and vasopressin are also present in the cocktail of chemicals released during climax. As LiveScience explains, their “release frequently accompanies that of melatonin, the primary hormone that regulates our body clocks.”

4. It makes being single that much easier.
One of the most obvious perks to being in a relationship is that you’re having sex on the reg (and maybe on the rag, too). Not that single folks aren’t getting laid. Casual encounters can be wonderful experiences, but they can also be unreliable and leave you less-than-satisfied. When that turns out to be the case, it’s nice to know that you’ve got a helping hand to turn to – your own hand, that is. As the late George Carlin once said, “If God had intended us not to masturbate, he would’ve made our arms shorter.”

5. It puts you in a better mood.
WebMD reports “Masturbation increases blood flow throughout your body and releases feel-good brain chemicals called endorphins.” Nicole Prause told the publication, “That may explain why there’s a clear mood benefit, even if you don’t orgasm.” She added, “It takes your mind [off your worries] while activating areas of the brain associated with pleasure.” That all sounds pretty promising. If that doesn’t sell you on the act, maybe a piece of information from clinical sexologist Gloria Brame will. She told Men’s Health magazine, “An orgasm is the biggest non-drug blast of dopamine available… A brain scan of someone having an orgasm looks like a heroin addict’s.”

6. It can relieve pain.
Most people would agree that maturbating is a lot more fun than popping a few Tylenol. And the list of ailments it can help cure is impressive. Medical Daily explains how having an orgasm can help cure anything form headaches to hiccups; menstrual cramps to morning sickness. Back in 1985, famed sex researcher Beverly Whipple conducted two separate studies to help prove the ways in which female masturbation can actually help increase one’s tolerance for pain.

7. It can help keep you hard.
Image result for male modelling underpantsstudy published in the American Journal Of Medicine found that men who reported having sex less than once a week were twice as likely to develop erectile dysfunction. The message was the more sex (or at least the more orgasms) you have, the less likely you are experience impotence. Or more simply put, you use it, or you lose it.
While some urologists remain skeptical of the findings, most agree that experiencing erections can help maintain sexual function. Men’s Health magazine writes “Regular sex or masturbation works out your pelvic floor muscles to prevent erectile dysfunction and incontinence.” As Gloria Brame told the publication, “It keeps the angle of your dangle perky.”

8. It makes your hair look better.
Michael Roizen, co-founder of YouBeauty writes, “Each hair follicle has a blood vessel to it, and your blood flow is a major determinate of both internal and external beauty.” As we know, orgasms help increase blood flow. Self-induced orgasms are no different. The more blood we get pumping through our system the more oxygen and nutrients reach different parts of our bodies – the scalp included. So every time you head south of the border during a moment alone, remember, you’re not just giving your genitals some love. You’re nourishing your hair as well.

9. It helps mediate the effects of menopause.
Gynecologist Judi Chervenak explained to Web MD that during menopause, “The vagina can actually narrow, which can make intercourse and vaginal exams more painful.” She added that masturbation – especially with a water-based lubricant can “prevent narrowing, boost blood flow, relieve some tissue and moisture problems, and increase sexual desire.”

10. It can help keep you (and your junk) healthy.
Jennifer Landa, a specialist in hormone therapy told Men’s Health, “Masturbation can [produce] the right environment for a strengthened immune system.” She explained that ejaculation can elevate cortisol levels – a hormone that can actually help regulate and maintain immunity, "in small doses." And back in 2003, a team of Australian researchers found that men who ejaculated more than five times week were a third less likely to develop prostate cancer. So gentleman, keep at it, and keep healthy. Your families will thank you.

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