Thursday 27 June 2013

The Top 10 Reasons to Date a Cougar

The Top 10 Reasons to Date a Cougar

Cougar.  Five years ago that word meant nothing more than a large cat.  But these days when people hear “cougar” they instantly think of an attractive older woman. Cougar dating, which is younger men dating older women, has become very popular over the last few years, and the word has become part of pop culture. Cougar dating has become so popular in recent years because it is a lot of fun for both the cougar and the cub.  This article looks at top 10 reasons to date a cougar.

1.  Because You Can

Never before in history has there been a time where is was so easy to date older women.  All the right factors have come together. Women are more independent today than they ever have been, and a lot of women are more interested in building a career than in starting a family.  And continuing with the same theme of independence, there has never been as many divorces as there is today.  Almost 50% of marriages end in divorce, and this leads to a lot of single older women.
Another reason why it is so easy to date an older woman these days is because it is more socially acceptable than it has ever been.  Thinking about a 40 year old woman dating a 27 year old man in the 1970s or 1980s just seems weird.  I am sure that it happened a lot, but people were a lot more quiet about it back then.  These days older women dating younger men is more socially acceptable.  There is even a network television show about cougars!  There has never been a better time to date a cougar, and the fact that you can is a great reason to do it.

2.  They are Upfront

In my experience cougars extremely upfront.  They are honest and open about their intentions and what kind of relationship they want to have.  One relationship that I had with a cougar was a friends with benefits relationship.  We were friends, but we also dated and had sex.  It was a lot of fun and a nice friendship.  The cougar I dated was very upfront about what she wanted.  She wanted a friends with benefits relationship and she let me know it.  It was refreshing to have a woman tell me straight up what she was interested in instead of the silly dating games that some women play.  The fact that a lot of cougars are upfront and honest about what they are looking for is one of the reasons that they are so attractive.

3.  They are Available

There is more divorce today than at any time in our history.  And while this is probably not a great thing, all of this divorce is good in a sense because it puts so many cougars on the dating market. If you look back to the latter half of the 20th century, there were hardly any divorces compared to now.  There simply were not as many attractive thirty and forty-somethings in the dating market. But now there are.  There are tons of cougars online and out at the bars looking to have fun with a younger man.  The fact that there are so many cougars available is a great reason to date older women.

4.  Cougars are Confident

In the bedroom and out of it, older women are very confident.  I find this to be a major turn on. Cougars have a lot of life experience, as well as a lot of experience in the bedroom.  They know what they want and why they want it.  The cougars’ confidence makes dating them a very nice experience.  They will have less hangups and insecurities and more confidence than the average woman.  This confidence makes dating older women a nice experience because they are upfront about what they want and why they want it.

5.  They are Busy

Cougars tend to live very busy lives.  They usually have a career and children to take care of, and that doesn’t leave much time for their dating life.  But this can be a good thing.  Older women know that they only have a small bit of time for you in their life, so they are sure to make the most of it.  Cougars will rarely be clingy and trying to take up took much of your time.  They are independent and have their own busy lives to attend too.  Cougars will make the most of the time that they spend with you, and they won’t try to run your life.  Cougars being so busy is a great reason to date them.

6.  The Sex

Older women tend to have a lot of experience in the bedroom and they know what works for them and exactly what they want.  This experience and confidence can lead to great sex.  Older women and cougars are very attractive and the sex can be great.  This is yet another reason to date cougars.
7.  They Want to Have Fun

Cougars want to have fun!  They are busy with work and kids most of the time so when they are with you they want to have fun!  No time for drama or fighting, dating a cougar is all about showing her a good time and having fun.  When you date an older woman you will probably come to notice that she just wants to have fun and make the most of her time with you.  Make sure that when you date a cougar you do your best to show her a good time and to make your dating relationship fun.  Fun and good times is all that a lot of older women want in a dating relationship.

8.  They’re Hot!

Cougars are incredibly sexy, and who doesn’t want to date a sexy woman?

9.  They Have Good Personalities

All the older women that I have dated have been fun, smart, and intelligent women.  Cougars are older women and as a result they will have a lot of life experience.  Looks can only go so far, and it is personality and chemistry that really make a relationship a good one.  Cougars can be smart, funny, intelligent, witty, and fun.  They tend to have great personalities, and because of that they make for wonderful women to date.  It’s not all about looks!  Having a good personality matters and usually cougars have it.

10.  Online Dating

That’s right.  Online dating is one of the top reasons why you should date a cougar.  Online dating has made cougars more accessible than ever before, and right at the time when there has never been more cougars to date!  It is a great combination.  There are cougars and older women out there who are interested in dating younger men, and many of them are on the popular online dating sites like Fish2Fish, Plenty of Fish and OkCupid.  Read through our site for some online dating advice, and then get out there are give online dating a try!

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