Tips to Spice Up Your Sex Life
Have you been feeling like your sex life is not quite what you want, lately? If so, the good news is that you can do a lot to improve it. It's a myth that your sex life is set to inevitably decline. The truth is that you can revitalize your sex life, no matter how old you are.
Try Role Playing
Bringing imagination into the bedroom is one of the most powerful ways to amp up the sexy factor in your daily life. Try acting out certain roles that turn your partner on and vice versa. Experiment with what works best for you and your partner. There is no need to be stuck with trying out a limited number of roles.
Role playing works because it helps you to connect sexual fantasies with reality. If you are really turned on by the thought of having a casual encounter with a policeman, your partner can "become" a policeman for an evening. Conversely, if the thought of getting involved with a prostitute is what does it for you, your partner can pretend to be one for as long as the fantasy excites you.
Make believe isn't just for children. Costumes aren't just for kids. Use your imagination to add a little fire to what you do in the bedroom. You won't be disappointed.
Experiment with Toys
Sex toys sometimes get a lot of notoriety, but they can be useful tools to help you and your partner realize your full sexual potential. There are an almost unlimited number of different sex toys out there. Thanks to the Internet, buying sex toys is now easier than ever before.
Getting your hands on some good sex toys doesn't necessarily involve visiting seedy adult bookstores. You can now purchase some of the best-quality sex toys in the business from the comfort of your own home.
There is no single sex toy that is right for everyone. You and your partner have to experiment and find out what works for you. If you have a bad experience with one toy, don't give up, just try out something else. Eventually you'll find some real gems.
Make Your Own Erotica
Writing down sexual fantasies with your partner or filming you and your partner having hot sex can really help you and your partner to heat things up. Don't be a passive consumer of ready-made pornography. Instead, make your own.
Go through the exercise of writing down your sexual fantasies and sharing them with your partner. This can help you to not only let your partner know what you want in bed, but also help you to identify what your true sexual fantasies and wants are. The more you are in tune with what you want sexually, the easier it will be for you to find fulfillment in your sex life.
Take a Break for a While
Sometimes forcing yourself to not have a sex for a week no matter how much you want to can help you to turn up the heat in your love life. Short periods of abstinence allow your sexual batteries time to recharge. They also help you to increase your craving for sex.
After a week or so of not allowing yourself to have sex with your partner, sex will feel better. This is analogous to what happens when you fast for a day or two and then have a feast: your ability to appreciate food is greatly enhanced.
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